I never had any serious money problems and I was able to take care of myself for the longest time but looking at my life right now, I feel like I didn't make any progress at all. Recently, I resigned thinking that I might be pregnant, which the way I see it now was the biggest mistake I've done in my life.
It's a BIG "no-no" for anyone to resign where they are about to enter a great responsibility specially in my case 'cause again I only suspected that I was pregnant.
Yes, I'm sure that my husband will be able to sustain all my needs but what will I be to my daughter/son-to-be?
My mother is a courageous woman, she was able to provide for us all. Our life is different now, it's much simplier but there is more peace. We have learned to appreciate everything that we have. God truly showed us that money is not everything. God is everything, our source and strength.
I'm still on step 1 in my life. Been looking for a job for about a month now, right after my husband left for abroad. Filed several job applications and still waiting for one of them to give me a call. I still have a long way to go but one thing I know is that it's not to late for me. It's never too late for a person to change his/her life for good or for bad.
I'm putting this life to the test. I know that there are much greater forces that is working it's way into our lives to bless us. All we need to do is take action and believe, the rest will follow.
If you are in the same situation, wherein you are made to choose between 'getting pregnant' or continuing with your career. Don't resign, don't do it until you're sure. You should at least be pregnant.
Make sure that you will be able to at least support yourself. Save up for it and get ready. Having a baby is a big responsibility. If you can't even support yourself, how can you support another?
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